I just finished watching a blog by Connectionaire on Shanel Cooper-Sykes’ youtube page and I was thinking about all the things that I have NOT changed in my life yet. You are reflected by the people you hang around the most. They asked the question, who are the 5 people that you hang with the most? If you want to be rich and successful then you need to change your surroundings. If your friends are broke or not at the level you’re trying to climb to, chances are you’re that way too.
Well I know for one, I am trying to lift myself to a higher status. I have Christian friends that are in business for themselves and are doing very well. I have recently friended a designer who has her own boutique and is doing fashion shows for which I am a model. She is aiming high and so am I. Now, I am planning on continuing climbing to the top. I do not plan on stopping now. I have realized that I really do not hang around too many people. I visit with my family every Sunday but I am not with just any one person. Also, when it comes to my friends I do not go and hang around them much either. I visit here and there if I am invited to events. Right now I am a loner. I’m focusing on getting my business off the ground and helping to develop my children so that they will be successful, well-educated, Christian black men.
As for a dating life, I do not have one. I let that go after realizing that I was aiming low and ended up getting hurt in the process. I am looking to start over fresh after I have been single and lived on my own for a little bit. I see now that it is time to release the men that have been trying to get into my life because they are not adding value to my life. I do not see a future with them so I need to let them know that and keep on moving. I have still been acting like a nice girl not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings but on the inside saying “nope, not gonna happen”. I need to get BEASTY about what I want from life and come to terms with WHY I do not see anything developing between us. It’s time to take that final step of breaking free from certain fears that still have a hold on me. If I hurt someone’s feelings, I am truly sorry but I really need to focus on doing what is best for me right now, not anyone else. Because no one can do a better job of being me than me. So I ask you, what are you trying to attain and are the people around you reflecting that goal?
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